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  • author ( 61, woman | Johannesburg, Gauteng, South Africa )

    I would first like to meet the person over a coffee or a glass of wine. If we feel comfortable with each other we can always stay for dinner.

  • author ( 62, woman | Faribault, MN, USA )

    Coffee, wine/beer ... something low key, no strings attached. Let's meet, talk and see if there is chemistry for an official first date.

  • author ( 50, woman | Hartford, WI, USA )

    Whatever....I just won't come to someone's house and it should be someplace where you can hear each other chat to find out if you have common interests. I prefer to keep it 3 hours and under unless I really hit it off wi...  see more >>

  • author ( 67, woman | Miller Place, NY, USA )

    Meet for drinks or coffee & maybe get a bite to eat if we connect. I think it is important to have a visual connection but personality & values mean a lot too. Having a drink or coffee & seeing what's next is a nice way...  see more >>

  • author ( 54, woman | Lake Elsinore, CA, USA )

    I am happy with an awesome man, a double double and some beer and kicking back somewhere..:} Im pretty easy going and as long as we both agree on it thats alright with me..

  • author ( 52, woman | Oklahoma City, OK, USA )

    My idea first date would be to go some where and have some drinks and great conversation and get to know one another afterwards go on a bike ride .

  • author ( 62, man | Elgin, IL, USA )

    Absolutely no pressure here! A casual meet & greet at a favorite pub perhaps would be fine with me or what ever we agree on? I feel I need to add that separated means not divorced. It`s a "work in progress". Ho...  see more >>

  • author ( 58, woman | Southington, CT, USA )

    Let's meet sooner rather than later, as there needs to either be a physical attraction that goes hand in hand with the conversation.

  • author ( 52, man | Santa Cruz, CA, USA )

    My first date idea for locals maybe meet up for coffee or drinks first then decide from there. My first date idea for someone out of town for more than 200 miles is a weekend meet up, to make it worthwhile. I'm pretty fl...  see more >>

  • author ( 56, woman | Dallas, TX, USA )

    lets go have a beer. (?) talk and get to know one another. I also like whiskey and bourbon. but not too much.. cuz I dont' weigh much and try to avoid being a sloppy drunk... (-:

  • author ( 34, man | Garner, NC, USA )

    I'd be comfortable in a relaxed coffee shop or a quiet bar, so we can talk. If things start well, dinner afterwards.

  • author ( 69, woman | Shawnee, KS, USA )

    Coffee, tea, margaritas, beer at a local establishment for a see-if-we-are-attracted-to-each-other meeting.

  • author ( 52, woman | Las Vegas, NV, USA )

    Meet and talk and maybe have something to eat or go on from there. If we click, that's great. If not, no harm, no foul.

  • author ( 48, woman | La Verne, CA, USA )

    go for ride on your bike to through moutains or canyons or anywhere where we can just enjoy the ride and figure things out as we go along

  • author ( 49, woman | Schaumburg, IL, USA )

    Grab a drink to see if we have a connection and take it from there. I feel having breakfast, lunch or dinner first is a bit awkward if we do not feel a connection.